I experienced that the loss of control associated with becoming a mother
felt more extreme when wanting to simultaneously nurture ones career, and
fearing the consequences that pregnancy can bring... In this context, sparring
with someone who understood the situation could contribute to increased
well-being in the new dual role as both a consultant and a mother.
Consultant and mother23
When did you primarily experience the need for sparring with your
manager regarding maternity leave?
52,87 %
Before my maternity leave
After I returned from
maternity leave
51,64 %
Just before I returned
from maternity leave
50,41 %
15,16 %
During my maternity leave
Transition initiatives
Implementing specialized programs and coaching support for parents during the transition is a
key strategy. A survey from VÆRDBAR based on
almost 300 individual parental leave situations,
shows that women tend to worry twice as much
as men regarding the potential implications of
parental leave on their careers. The survey also
showed that women were half as likely to discuss
their concerns and twice as likely to seek new job
opportunities during or six months following their
parental leave. The primary reasons for not sharing these concerns with their superiors include
a lack of trust, fear of misunderstanding, and a
concern of appearing weak or being negatively
judged21. It is important to remember that the
worries are supported by facts. Research on, e.g.,
the motherhood penalty, clearly shows that
women are being punished career-wise when
they become mothers as opposed to men when
they become fathers. The fact that women worry
more than men is therefore not a female gender
A series of at least four expectation alignment meetings throughout the process is also
important:
1.
2.
3.
4.
The first meeting, held
when the parental
leave or pregnancy is
announced, should
establish expectations
leading up to the leave.
The second meeting,
held about a month
before the leave
begins, should finalize
the handover, determine the final working
day before the leave,
and discuss communication during the leave.
The third meeting,
scheduled about a
month before the employees return, should
discuss task portfolios, relevant courses,
collaboration with
colleagues, and expectations for re-entry.
The fourth meeting,
held about a month
after the return to
work, should assess
if expectations match
reality.
Its also important for the organization to tailor its contact with parents on leave according to their
individual preferences and needs, ensuring that they feel supported and valued even when they are not
actively working. Again, this entirely depends on prior agreement between employer and employee on
the nature of contact during the absence of the employee.
18
I did not need to spar
with my manager
Other
8,20 %
6,15 %
10%
20%
30%
40%
50%
Note: 26, 27, 28, 29
issue, it is due to the actual negative consequences of parenthood that women experience compared to men22. Parents who rated their parental
leave process as good were 50% less likely to
resign from their jobs during or after their leave.
As such, its crucial to develop a strategic parental
leave program. This program should incorporate
processes like mandatory expectation alignment
agreements and training for leaders in effective
parental leave management.
My work was an incredibly big part of my identity before I became a mother.
And it still is, but its not the only thing anymore. I am both a mother and a
consultant. It felt lonely to suddenly feel that change in me and the change
in priorities so clearly. I wasnt prepared for that. I would have liked to have
someone to talk to in confidence.
Consultant 1st time mother24
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More women in consulting part 1
Release date: March 8, 2024 Board of Directors at the Association of Danish Management Consulting Firms (ADMCF) Editorial: Katrine Friborg Heitmann, DI Advisors Photos: Getty Images, Implement Consulting Group Work Group More Women in Consulting: Anne Livbjerg Roed, Implement Consulting Group P/S, H
Introduction Womens representation in the industry In 2021, the Association of Danish Management Consulting Firms published a catalogue of hands-on initiatives, from the industry to the industry, aimed at improving gender diversity within the sector. 19 % Top Leadership Managers 21 % Consultan
Closing the wage gap Despite strides made towards gender equality, on the labor market in general women often earn less than men in comparable roles, with similar levels of experience and seniority3 with a confirmed job-to-job difference at 7%4. While specific industry wage data may not be available
Discussion of initiatives: Developing a pay equity framework and conducting regular audits A standardized approach is necessary to ensure fair and equal pay for the same work or work of the same value for employees in management consulting firms. Notably, several consultancies have already implement
We are testing out bias reminders ahead of performance reviews as a tool to create awareness about unconscious bias in situations where it can really make a difference Womens non-promotable work An essential facet of pertinent research to incorporate into this discourse is the No-Club research5. Th
Parental leave As of August 2022, the parental leave regulation in Denmark was changed, reserving 11 weeks of parental leave to each parent9. Preliminary numbers show that men have started to take more parental leave10. According to the new figures from Udbetaling Danmark, fathers are now taking up
From catalogue #1 to #2 As highlighted in the first catalogue, the strategy of gradually reducing workload before the leave and slowly ramping up again after returning remains a prevalent practice in the industry. Alternatively, employers might be given the opportunity to focus solely on internal ta
Key initiatives to meet these needs during parental leave Establishing an open dialogue before, during (if preferred by the employee), and after the transition to parenthood. Emphasizing this initiative is crucial, as it stands out as one of the easiest and most cost-effective measures for companie
I experienced that the loss of control associated with becoming a mother felt more extreme when wanting to simultaneously nurture ones career, and fearing the consequences that pregnancy can bring... In this context, sparring with someone who understood the situation could contribute to increased we
CHECK-INS with MANAGER or SPONSOR/CAREER COUNSELOR to ensure ongoing expectations and provide support before, during, and after maternity leave 100% 92% Industry example Employees have access to healthcare guidance. This means that there is an open, honest, and confidential dialogue about everythin
Leadership In the management consulting industry, where client relationships and high-performance teams are crucial elements to a successful business, leadership plays an important role. Leaders must be active advocates for gender diversity, using their influence to drive change, both within their o
Discussion of initiatives: Data-driven approach A data-driven approach, spearheaded by top management, is crucial to effectively measure the impact of diversity and inclusion efforts in management consulting. This involves the implementation of, and follow-ups on, exit interviews, well-being surveys
Culture audit and employer branding The consulting industry has historically had a predominantly male workforce and and client base. While the industry consists of almost 40% women today,33 remnants of historical and cultural practices persist, posing potential challenges to inclusion and diversity.
Common termite bias phrases39 Discussion of initiatives: Mobilizing men for gender diversity Engaging men in the pursuit of gender diversity in the workplace is crucial. Research from BCG demonstrates that organizations that actively involve men in gender diversity efforts report making 96% progress
the company as a place that not only values psychological safety but also prioritizes transparency, authenticity, and continuous learning. This can lead to an increase in the number of applicants, including more female applicants and it may retain existing employees for a longer period. Organizatio
UNCONSCIOUS BIAS TRAINING raising awareness and promote understanding of biases that impact decision-making and behavior 40% 42% 30% 29% 20% 17% 13% 10% Allready implemented Dont know In progress Will be implemented Soruce: Data collected by the Association of Danish Management Consulting
References 1. Data collected by the Association of Danish Management Consulting Firms 2. Top leadership consists of female CEOs and VPs in a combined director category. Data is from 2020 Managers: Data is from November 2021. Consultants: Gender distribution for full-time non-managerial employees